WTF Moment

I had a huge WTF moment just now.

One of my students approached me on Monday with a request to discuss their many missed assignments. I told them they’d need to come in during my office hours and to my surprise, they did. Their request was simple – some leniency around about 4-5 weeks worth of assignments they have not turned in. I would have considered their request, but they didn’t bother to complete the tasks due this week, much less in the last five weeks. Specifically, they had an assignment due by midnight last night. It didn’t get turned submitted.

What makes all these worse is they aren’t difficult assignments. Really. Some of them should be able to knock them out easily with a skim of their text. Others with a bit more life under their belt should be able to get them done with less reading. But it’s as if they aren’t even looking. What’s worse is probably 2/3rds of this particular class is engaging in the same behavior.

So I’m still swimming in my WTF moment, wondering how to deal with some of this and how much of it is my responsibility and how much to let the students carry. There is a large part of me that wants to be compassionate and  work with students who have fallen behind. It also seems that there is a significant accountability piece that many of these students are missing, and don’t get, when they are allowed to slide. Ultimately, I don’t have an answer and the more I ask and struggle with this problem, the more questions I generate for myself.

Any advice or input would be greatly appreciated.

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Snowflakes

I ran into an interesting term today when reading posts at Phinnished.org. The term was “snowflake.” Now I’ve only heard that word used to actually discuss real snowflakes, and occasionally as a derogatory term towards (primarily) white women and (occasionally) men, but this definition hit home. The folks at Phinnished.org, in defining slang and terms found on the website, say that

In real life, a snowflake is a delicate and beautiful thing, characterized by great fragility and uniqueness. In PhinisheDland, we use the term snowflake to describe a demanding and grade-grubbing student whose inflated sense of self-esteem and overarching sense of entitlement belies a mediocre intellect, low motivation, poor academic abilities, and refusal to accept personal responsibility for his or her actions. Snowflakes are one of the primary reasons that teaching is sometimes a chore rather than a joy.

This rang particularly true with me in light of a few students with whom I’ve found myself dealing this year. While not overall important in the grand scheme of things, it gave me new language for these students. It also reminded me that, in the big picture, they are the deviants of my experience rather than the norm.

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